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Lisa Arlington

Therapist / counsellor · United Kingdom

Lisa Arlington, BACP

Supportive counsellor for relationship and family issues

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  • Warm empathic approach
  • Practical short-term goals
  • Family and relationship focus

About Lisa

Lisa Arlington is a counsellor who focuses on relationships and family life. She uses a calm, empathic style to help people who are navigating relationship problems, trauma, grief and depression. Lisa is a wife and mother to three grown children and brings eight years of experience to her work. She holds BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy credential, which is shown as BACP.

Lisa often works with people who feel stuck after big life changes. She talks through practical steps and helps people notice their strengths. Her approach draws on Client-Centred Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy to keep sessions grounded and goal oriented.

In sessions she listens first, then helps clients set short-term aims. This can involve trying small changes between meetings and checking what helps. She supports people dealing with abandonment, attachment difficulties, blended family issues and caregiver stress, among other concerns.

She also helps with communication and commitment worries, family of origin problems, divorce and separation, and feelings of emptiness, guilt or shame. Lisa recognises that everyday pressures can make personal needs feel unimportant and she works to restore a clearer sense of agency.

Starting therapy is treated as a partnership. Lisa emphasises warmth, acceptance and gentle guidance while people build new routines and choices. Her practical focus aims to make change manageable and relevant to real life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepressionCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Lisa’s approaches shape online therapy options

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and creating an accepting space where the client leads the pace and topics. It helps people manage strong feelings, rebuild self-trust and clarify what matters to them. Solution-Focused Therapy looks at small, concrete steps and short-term goals to move forward quickly on specific problems such as communication or practical family issues.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss the options with each person and agree on a way of working that fits their needs and goals. That conversation is collaborative and may change as progress is made.

The precise session formats this therapist offers should be confirmed before booking. In general, online work can make it easier to fit therapy around family responsibilities and busy days. It can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins when that suits, and help people maintain steady contact while juggling caregiving or work. Talk with the therapist about what session rhythm and structure would best fit everyday life and current needs.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

Lisa helps people with relationship and family problems, trauma and abuse, grief and depression, and coping with life changes. She also works with issues such as attachment, abandonment and caregiver stress.

What style of therapy does she use?

Her work draws on Client-Centred Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy. Sessions focus on listening, identifying small goals and trying practical steps between meetings.

What is her professional background?

She has eight years of counselling experience and brings personal insight as a parent alongside her professional practice. Her biography emphasises a calm and empathic manner.

Where is she based and what credential does she hold?

She is based in the United Kingdom and lists BACP as her credential.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for and what do costs look like?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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