- 40 years experience
- Caregiver support
- Trauma and grief
About Shelia
Her work centers on creating an open, nonjudgmental space where people can talk through difficult feelings. She encourages honest conversation about grief, loss, and the everyday pressures of caregiving. Shelia listens for what matters most to each person and helps them find clearer ways to move forward.
Over decades of practice she has helped people address relationship patterns, attachment concerns, and the ripple effects of control issues, guilt, and shame. She also supports work on communication problems, separation and divorce, and obsessive or compulsive behaviors. Multicultural concerns and life-stage challenges like midlife shifts are part of her day-to-day work.
Sessions emphasize practical steps and steady support rather than quick fixes. Shelia uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques tailored to each person’s needs. She also works with people who carry caregiver stress and helps them manage the demands that come with caring for others, including in contexts listed under Supporting carers.
People who choose her often want steady, experienced guidance and a therapist who will listen closely. To begin, readers can follow the site prompts to see if her approach fits their situation.
Areas of expertise
Primary focus
Additional focus areas
Experience
40+ years
Credentials
California
Languages
English
Therapeutic approaches and how they adapt online
Evidence-based therapeutic techniques are used to help people manage symptoms and build new coping skills. One common approach focuses on practical skill-building for anxiety and mood challenges - it teaches tools for managing worrisome thoughts, reducing overwhelm, and establishing daily routines that support mood. Another approach addresses trauma and grief by helping people name painful experiences and practice pacing so distress feels more manageable. Each method aims to make change gradual and concrete rather than abstract.Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, daily challenges, and preferences. This is a collaborative process where techniques are adjusted over time to fit what’s working and what needs more focus.
Confirm the current session options before booking, as formats are not specified in the biography. Online therapy can make sessions easier to fit into a busy life by removing travel time and allowing more flexible scheduling. It can also let someone have a shorter check-in when time is limited, or avoid being on camera when that feels better. Talk with the therapist during the matching process to decide which session arrangement best supports your goals.
Frequently asked questions
What concerns does Shelia commonly help with?
She helps people work through stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, and parenting challenges. She also addresses related issues like attachment, guilt, shame, and caregiver stress.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her approach focuses on creating an open, nonjudgmental space where clients can speak freely. She uses practical, evidence-based techniques and tailors sessions to each person's needs.
What is her professional background?
She is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 40 years of professional experience working with a range of mood and relationship concerns.
Where is she located and licensed?
She is licensed in California as an LMFT and practices with that credential in mind.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can international clients work with her?
She does not accept international clients at this time.
How are session costs handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin working together?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.