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Tessa Adri-Soejoko

Therapist / counsellor · United Kingdom

Tessa Adri-Soejoko, BACP

Helping carers manage stress and relationships

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  • Warm collaborative style
  • Attachment-informed work
  • Supports caregiver stress

About Tessa

Tessa Adri-Soejoko is a counsellor who supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem and the practical strain of caring for others. She offers a calm, respectful approach aimed at helping people take small steps towards feeling steadier and more able to cope. Tessa presents as warm and non-judgemental and encourages clients to bring what matters most to them into sessions.

Tessa uses a person-centred way of working that keeps the person’s experience at the heart of the conversation. She also draws on attachment ideas about how early relationships shape how people manage emotions today. Together with each client she looks at what is causing the most pain and what changes would feel useful.

Sessions are collaborative. The focus can be practical coping strategies, looking at relationship patterns, or spending time understanding grief and loss. Tessa adapts the pace to each person and helps set realistic goals when that is helpful. She names feelings, reflects what she hears and invites new ways of responding to difficult situations.

Her background includes six years of experience in counselling work and she is BACP registered, which is noted as a professional credential. Tessa normally works within a weekly session framework and discusses the best scheduling rhythm with each person.

People often reach out about caregiver stress, compassion fatigue, parenting strain, relationship rupture, trauma and grief. When someone wants to explore those concerns, Tessa offers steady support and practical conversation to help them move forward.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposePanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Tessa’s approaches inform online work

Tessa uses client-centred counselling and attachment-based ideas to guide her work. Client-centred therapy focuses on listening without judgement and reflecting back what a person says to help them find their own solutions. This approach is useful for people looking to build confidence, sort out values or work through day-to-day stress.

Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape emotional responses today. It helps people understand patterns in close relationships, manage strong emotions and address issues such as abandonment, codependency or intimacy difficulties.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process. Tessa treats this as a collaborative task and will check in about what feels most useful. She works with the client to set goals, try ways of working and adjust the approach if something doesn’t fit.

Session formats are not specified in the source biography, so please confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time and allow check-ins during short breaks. It can also offer more flexible ways to maintain continuity when schedules change, while still keeping the focus on practical coping and relationship work.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Tessa commonly help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, relationship rupture, grief and compassion fatigue, among other concerns listed in her profile.

How does she approach therapy?

Tessa works in a person-centred way and draws on attachment ideas about emotional regulation. The work is warm, collaborative and tailored to each person.

What is her professional background?

She has six years of experience in counselling work and has supported clients with a range of issues including trauma, parenting strain and panic attacks.

Where does Tessa practise and what credential does she hold?

She is based in the United Kingdom and holds BACP as a listed credential.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with Tessa?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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